Family businesses can be really challenging.
Shared history, blurry boundaries, and unspoken expectations often turn minor disagreements into lasting wounds.
When there’s tension — especially when it feels unjust — do you avoid the tough conversations? Or do you choose to have a courageous one?
This weekend I was struck by a powerful line from Leviticus:
“You shall not hate your brother in your heart.”
Powerful Lessons
From a psychological perspective, this verse holds two powerful lessons:
Don’t Bottle Up
Unspoken resentment doesn’t disappear — it just takes up mental and emotional space.
It drains your energy and clarity.
Give Them Chances
Speak up. Not from anger, but from a place of curiosity and care.
Many conflicts are fueled by misunderstanding — not malice.
Conclusion
Of course, this only works when the other side is open and coachable. Sometimes, timing and emotional readiness matter more than truth itself.
If you’re navigating conflict in a family business, know that you’re not alone — and you don’t have to choose between silence and war. There’s a middle path.